Milih surga Atau Neraka

Di jaman teknologi sekarang , banyak orang yang memilih kebahagiaan dunia di banding kebahagiaan akhirat, seakan-akan uang adalah segalanya di dunia ini, hingga mereka pun melupakan apa yang telah menjadi kewajiban sebagai seorang hamba Tuhan ( Allah ) --> khusus muslim.

Pernah saya berbincang kepada teman saya dan bertanya, hidup mu itu buat apa ?? lalu dia pun menjawab, hidup ku sering menjalankan kemaksiatan, biarkan aku menjadi seperti ini karna sudah terlanjut hancur.

lalu ada lagi temen saya yang bilang kepada saya, gimana ya caranya menjadi orang baik ?? lalu aku pun menjawab, u bisa sholat kan, sholatlah (khusus muslim), setalah aku bilang kayak gitu, dia pun berkata, sebenarnya aku punya niatan kayak gitu , tetapi nafsu selalu menggoda, dan tidak bisa mengendalikan, lalu aku pun menjawab, lawanlah rasa itu, karna dengan melawan nafsu yang jelek nanti lama kelamaan pasti u akan menjadi orang yang lebih baik dari sekarang.

memang uang bisa merubah orang yang baik menjadi jahat, ada beberapa orang yang pernah bilang saat ada adzan, tu sholat, dia pun berkata aku sudah pernah sholat, dalam hatiku, kenapa ini orang bisa menjadi kayak begini (buruk), sedangkan dulu dia rajin sholat (khusus muslim), apakah karna sudah bisa mencari uang trus melupakan yang memberi segala di dunia (Allah), sungguh-sungguh aku tidak habis pikir, dia lebih memilih neraka daripada surga.

itu pengalaman pribadi saya.

bagaimana dengan anda?  intinya adalah surga atau neraka anda sendiri yang memilih :)

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Between Love or Lust

Love or Lust?? - As a special relationship with a man, have you ever wondered to yourself if you are living a romance was based on love or just lust alone? Apparently the answer depends on the part of the brain you use.

As reported by Female First, the study released in the Journal of Sexual Medicine and analyzed 20 different studies related to the effects of sex and love. Research conducted also included brain scans of people who see erotic pictures, pictures of loved ones, food and other pleasures trigger.

According to researchers, it's lust triggered the brain that controls feelings of pleasure, which is associated with sex and food. However, love is triggered parts of the brain associated with the habit.

The researchers say that there are two parts of the brain responsible for tracking how sexual desire develops into love, the insula and striatum.

Jim Pfaus Professor of Psychology at Concordia University in Montreal and author of the study, said, "We are marking different things in love, sexual desire and addiction. However, everything is processed in the same place."

The results showed that the brain treats love as a habit that has been formed over a long period of time. So, that was lust may be turned into love and transferred into the habit part of the brain. The same pattern occurs when people become addicted to drugs. Thus, the expression of love turns addiction really exists.

"Habit is usually a bad thing, but the most important thing is to define the brain. Amendment of passion into love is a bonding mechanism in a relationship," said Pfaus.

Pfaus also believe that this study will serve as a foundation for other research. "This study reveals that evolution could help understand addiction, love, and social."

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love for treasure what's wrong ?

Nothing wrong with that sentence and i'm also not to blame if we as a woman possessed such principles.

When standing, the throne shelter to a man often makes women blinded by money. No matter whether there is a feeling of love between them, no matter what position he is a good person or the property is gained by lawful means, thanks to the hard work of his life, or how. I'm sure my friends will understand this issue better.

Prosperity, abundance of wealth, the adequacy of living, abundant money so a dream of all people, we can not deny anymore that everything in this world almost everything can be bought with money.

Even the honor can be bought only with money. Myself to admit that I can not live without money

Without wealth we can not buy anything, without love life is empty and without the throne we can not control.

Is among you who have love like that???? you are the only who knows?

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Internet, internet cafes or HP Spectre Society

For many rural communities, the Internet is something sordid, pornographic, indecent can even say the Internet is misleading. This opinion is obtained based on the results of a survey in rural communities. So they forbid their children to learn the Internet, let alone go to Internet cafes. Finally, the kids went to figuring out a way clandestinely.

Nothing can hinder the rapid progress of information technology in our lives. Century information technology has penetrated in all aspects of society, has even entered into the postal patrolling in the villages of Indonesia. Until in some communities are concerned with this Internet presence. It needs to be appreciated that concern, because many times the news media continues to publish negative events. Such students do things that are not obscene in figuring (Public Internet), gambling, chatting up the negative and prostitution over the Internet.

The phenomenon of public concern is well-founded, because the Indonesian nation, including the order to fifth in the world and rank second in Asia as who accessed pornographic sites.

Internet can be accessed via a network cable or wireless telephon like Hot Spot and HP (Hand Phone). People can find anything and do anything, whether it's looking for a book, discussion, shopping goods, promotion, health consultations and so forth unless told to look for the missing neighbor chickens. For those who want to do the negative, can be done via the Internet. Figuring that is generally reserved space / booths closed, allowing users free internet cafe to do anything without someone else who knows.

How big is figuring endanger students ...?

Basically HP is more dangerous than figuring. When figuring in a certain place that a lot of people and a guard, while the HP function is also able to access the Internet and can be taken anywhere. HP can be brought even hide in my room, WC, gardens and anywhere.

To avoid students accessing websites negatively, by means of mental coaching. So when students accessing the Internet, they put themselves in a position where, depending on the mental capital of each individual. For students who are mentally well, certainly will not access porn sites, but bad-minded students, usually to figuring will only access porn sites. Thus, control and control of the Information and Communication Technology exists on the user, not the hands of the creator.

It is necessary to build defenses early on, so that students avoid destructive mental virus. The most powerful fortress is each individual's mental. Where the mental is built from the family. Family environment is the most flexible and time to develop mentally. Students who never get a good mental development, of course, could not interact socially and will only make unrest in society.

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Mix Of The Shaman Ponari Jombang and stone amulet

A house is not habitable, dirt floors, bamboo walls and precarious when rain leaked everywhere. Here was born a boy named Muhammad Ponari. Just like a new boy class III SD, Ponari is playing while the rain. Amid lightning Ponar game then find a rock the size of a chicken egg by Ponari considered strange, and then take home. His great-grandfather advised that the stone Ponari treated well and serve as a talisman. Because the stone is able to cure all ills.

Initially try to cure some patients among neighbors, once proven effective, then the news spread from mouth to mouth of Jombang and throughout the surrounding areas, even Solo, Yogya, Semarang and Jakarta. So that people are flocking to the tens of thousands per day to ask for healing panyakit.

A very simple method of healing is very interested in the community, because the patient is only carry water. Water in the glass stone dicelupi Ponari once. Water that has been dyed stone can be taken and applied to the affected part. Furthermore, patients are only asked to return seikhlasnya.

Is there an element of exploitation of Ponari ...?

So crowded and the news spread healing, until Ponari assisted more than 300 panitiya, both the elements of the local community, to the ranks of the police and military. Because in one day can reach tens of thousands of patients. So that needs to be installed tents, chairs, tables, fencing security, the registration number and the parking lot. Panitiya already divided their duties, and the most medapat attention is part of the reward money box kept police and army.

Communities around the house Ponari also benefited, since the emergence of impromptu stalls, hawkers impromptu and inn-lodging for patients who have not had a turn. Suddenly the village where Ponari live, actually widened metropolitan village bath. People who had been gardening, farming, trading market, suddenly stopped and turned professional activities as the trade panitiya and there around the house Ponari. Ponari the shaman girl who can give healing the sick and giving livelihood of many people.

Dense, crowded, hot, crowded, tired and sore is a phenomenon that occurs in the queue. Which raised the issue, because patients jostling irregular, eventually many patients terijak underfoot, fainting and even four people were killed before their turn Ponari dye stone.

As a result four people were killed, and their staffs Jombang Government step in to take the best steps. Finally Ponari suspend operations and evacuate in the House Office of Regent Jombang. Furthermore, patients who have not had their turn Ponari dye stone, encouraged to return home each, as Ponari healing practice is not open anymore. With a sense of regret, thousands of patients went home, grumble, grumble and sneer Jombang District officials.

This phenomenon goes back to some of the nation of Indonesia. Berjubelnya patients on alternative healing, shows that Indonesia Paramedics are less credible to mention his ability to cure the disease. Besides the cost of the medicines are not affordable anymore, especially the weak economy. While the government reluctant to give Jamkesmas (Community Health Insurance).

What's up with stone amulet Ponari ..?

Stone remains a stone, but we can not deny the fact. Stone Ponari is shown in the fact the modern age, where most of the Indonesian people more confident with things mystical. With the conviction, the disease can be cured only with dicelupi a stone. Stone is not just any rock, but this time "The stone Ponari of Jombang The Shaman Remix".

When and where Ponari will open another practice, of course, the public will come again and crowded as before. But more importantly hopefully Ponari can continue their education to pursue a more concrete future and can enjoy his children to play with their peers.

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